By Aghere Oluwamuyitomiwa
In a world where a common man tends to abide by some rules he’s not aware of who, when and where it was created, in a world where we tend to have seen while living in an obscured darkness, in a world where sinners chastise, criticize and condemn sinners just for sinning differently, in such a world abuse and optimum disregard to human race is inevitable.
Some people say it’s wrong to repeat an outfit on the gram as an artist in show biz, the motivational speaker from the gram says be yourself and don’t be influenced or driven by what people say. People say don’t give in to depression, this same people are quick to publicly judge you, criticize and condemn you anytime you go wrong, most times they become the cause of your depression.
Sometimes I get to wonder who made these rules, did the creator of the universe sent any of his deputy to planet Earth, it’s a question we need to dialogue on, reflect and evaluate consciously conscious.
The words criticism and judgment are highly charged in our culture. In part we have lost the ability to not only be discerning but unhappily, the ability to express what is being discerned primarily out of fear of “offending”. We live in a society increasingly concerned with political correctness and avoiding “offense” rather than seeing through into the heart of the issue, that is “intellectualism”.
Criticism is the practice of judging the merits and faults of something. The judger is called a critic. To engage in criticism is to criticise One specific entity of criticism. Hence it is called a criticism or critique. Criticism is an evaluative or corrective exercise that can occur in any area of human life.
People get criticised so as for them to make more efforts at getting things right or for them to put on more effort on all they are doing.
Condemnation simply means the act of declaring something awful of evil i.e a strong act of disapproval.
When you get condemned, there is no going back on it .There is nothing that can be done most times to redeem your image.
At this point,you have being given a lot of chances but you have misused them.
The reason for high rate of suicide in our community today is because majority see criticism as condemnation.
If as a student you fail in your exams and you get bashed for that by those close to you …It’s mere criticism not condemnation..You have the power to make things right in your hand.
As a business personality you lose a contract and you get tongue lashed or sacked by your employer. It’s not the end of the world, bro
You can make things right for yourself because it is mere criticism not condemnation.
No one has right to condemn you but the right to criticise .
Don’t condemn yourself to death .
Suicide is not an option.